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I admit it. I’m kind of a sap when it comes to music and its ability to conjure a well of emotions…even tears. That’s right, I’m a grown man who’s sometimes moved to tears when I hear certain songs. Mind you, the stars have to be aligned and all the pieces in place for me to actually well up. It usually happens on airplanes or buses when I’m wholly immersed in a tune, staring out a window, contemplating life — my regrets, my hopes and my memories, both good and bad. Usually it’s the combination of the lyrics and a melancholy melody, oftentimes featuring a delicately finger-picked acoustic guitar, that coaxes my sensitive side to surface. And although it can be a little embarrassing to have to wipe a tear from my cheek while sitting next to some stranger in coach, I truly cherish these moments that I’m lost in the music, at one with my deepest emotions.

Here’s a list of 10 tear-inducing songs, listed chronologically. What songs make you cry? Share your list here.

“Boots of Spanish Leather” by Bob Dylan (1963)

Bob Dylan

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As Oliver Trager writes, this song of fading love is “a restless, forlorn ballad for the ages and sages – a classic Dylan tale of two lovers, a crossroads, and the open sea…” In the second to last verse, Dylan realizes that despite his pleading, his lover will not be returning to him: “Well, if you, my love, must think that-a-way/I’m sure your mind is roamin’/I’m sure your heart is not with me/But with the country to where you’re goin’.” This song encapsulates that gut-wrenching moment when you come to understand that the person you love has drifted away, leaving you longing and heartbroken.


“Needle of Death” by Bert Jansch (1965)

Bert Jansch

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A touching elegy to the victims of heroin masterfully rendered by Bert Jansch, arguably one of the most accomplished and innovative acoustic guitarists of all time. Indeed, it was Jansch who inspired Jimmy Page to pick the acoustic guitar and Neil Young to proclaim, “As much of a great guitar player as Jimi [Hendrix] was, Bert Jansch is the same thing for acoustic guitar…and my favourite.” This song touches me because it so poignantly addresses the tragedy of wasted potential.


“Kathy’s Song” by Simon & Garfunkel (1966)

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Take one look at the lyrics of this Paul Simon-penned tune and you’ll know why it’s tear inducing. Stunningly simple, but as powerful as a freight train. One of the great love songs and vastly underrated, “Kathy’s Song” really hits home when miles or oceans separate you from the one you love. “And so you see I have come to doubt/All that I once held as true/I stand alone without beliefs/The only truth I know is you.”


“Farewell, Farewell” by Fairport Convention (1969)

Fairport Convention

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The back story of this song is enough to make you weep. On 12 May 1969, Fairport’s van crashed on the way home from a gig in Birmingham. Martin Lamble – just 19 years old – and Jeannie Franklyn, guitarist Richard Thompson’s girlfriend, were killed. “Farewell, Farewell” is a tribute to the band’s fallen friends: “Farewell, farewell to you who would hear/You lonely travellers all/The cold north wind will blow again/The winding road does call.”


“Road” by Nick Drake (1970)

Nick Drake

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Nick Drake, in my opinion, is one of the most tragic figures in rock music history. A supremely talented singer, songwriter, and guitarist who was plagued by severe depression, Drake committed suicide in 1974 after releasing three perfect albums of pastoral folk rock. It was hard to choose which track to include here since all of his music has a profound effect on me. Melancholy, but never maudlin or exploitative, Drake’s music, especially on his swansong, Pink Moon, is chilling and beautiful at the same time. Only the coldest of hearts wouldn’t be moved by this stuff.


“Hello in There” by John Prine (1971)

John Prine

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A study on aging and loneliness, John Prine’s “Hello in There” was groundbreaking in its treatment of a subject matter rarely ever addressed in music. The fact that Prine was only 25 when he wrote it only speaks to his maturity and talent. A heartbreaking ballad that, unlike its protagonists, never gets old. “Ya’ know that old trees just grow stronger/And old rivers grow wilder ev’ry day/Old people just grow lonesome/Waiting for someone to say, ‘Hello in there, hello.’”


“The Last Time I Saw Richard” by Joni Mitchell (1971)

Joni Mitchell

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With strong allusions to the breakdown of Mitchell’s own marriage, this song of a failed relationship and the wreckage left behind always depresses me. Especially the following line: “Richard got married to a figure skater/And he bought her a dishwasher and a Coffee percolator/And he drinks at home now most nights with the TV on/And all the house lights left up bright.”


“4th of July, Asbury Park (Sandy)” by Bruce Springsteen (1973)

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One of Springsteen’s best ruminations on fading love, dreams, and desires, “4th of July” vividly captures the depressing atmosphere of a Jersey shore boardwalk. With references to “stoned-out faces” and “switchblade lovers,” Springsteen yearns to leave the scene behind and implores Sandy to take that ride with him. Although I can’t relate to the dead end nature of a life “hangin’ in them dusty arcades bangin’ them pleasure machines,” this song never fails to put a lump in my throat.


“Anchorage” by Michelle Shocked (1987)

Michelle Shocked

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It’s hard to put in words why this songs is so powerful to me. Taking the form of a letter received by the singer from an “old friend,” (“I mailed my letter off to Dallas, but the reply came from Anchorage”) the song is from the POV of the friend who settled down to raise a family. The resignation in her voice as she catches the singer up on her life is palpable (“Leroy got a better job so we moved/Kevin lost a tooth, he’s started school/I’ve got a brand new eight month old baby girl/I sound like a housewife/Hey Chel, I think I’m a housewife.”). Stuck in Alaska living the quiet family life, you can sense her longing for “the days of the foreign telegrams and the all night rock and rolling.” She goes on to hint at the loneliness she’s feeling as she writes, “Hey Chel you know it’s kinda funny, Texas always seems so big, but you know you’re in the largest state in the Union when you’re anchored down in Anchorage.”


“Svefn-g-englar” by Sigur Ros (1999)

Sigur Ros

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I don’t understand a word of this Icelandic song, but the glacial music has come to signify a very memorable and meaningful time in my life: the courtship of my wife and the post-9/11 recovery, during which time I was living in NYC. To be honest, I’m at risk of losing it every time I put on any of Sigur Ros’s albums.



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Daniel Dyer said:

Definitely agree re: Svefn-g-englar, and Sigur Ros in general for that matter. You’re missing some of the great contemporary songs, though: I’d put Oh Comely by Neutral Milk Hotel and Videotape by Radiohead on that list, but perhaps that’s just me.

Dan K said:

Very nice mix! I personally swapped in Nanci Griffith’s version of “Boots” and went with Eva Cassidy’s version of “Kathy’s Song” (much more haunting imho especially given her tragic death at such a young age.)

Douglas Newman said:

Nancy’s version of “Boots” is amazing. Never heard Eva Cassidy’s version of “Kathy’s Song.” I’ll have to check that out. Thanks for the heads up!

Dyrran said:

John Mayer’s “Slow Dancing in a Burning Room” messes me up.

Erik Sellberg said:

Nice selection. I’d like to add the song “phantasmagoria in two” by Tim Buckley. probably one of the most hauntingly beautiful songs of all time

Cry Baby said:

That one song “15 there’s still time for you” makes me wanna cry. It’s really gay but if you listen to the lyrics and really think about em it can be bad.

Jackson said:

I agree with Sigur Ros, but not Svefn-g-Englar. Actually when I read the headline on Digg, the first song that came to mind was Sigur Ros – Untitled #8.

El Scifo said:

Broken Heart – Spiritualized

NL1138 said:

“What Sarah Said” by Death Cab For Cutie. Perfectly captures those last moments spent with someone about to die.

Spizawn said:

Johnny Cash’s cover of Hurt anyone

John said:

Other great songs to make one cry:
“The Luckiest”- Ben Folds
“I Miss You”- Randy Newman
“Cathedrals”- Jump Little Children
“And So It Goes”- Billy Joel

“Choose Something Like a Star”- Randall Thompson and Robert Frost

Norma said:

All of these are good picks. Especially “The Last Time I Saw Richard.” That one’s way up there for me.

Bill from TX said:

I have never heard some of these thanks for posting them.
This one kills me every time. Harry Chapin’s The Shortest Story.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUuPdpADpJA&feature=related
Everytime I cry, it breaks my heart.

josh said:

What about every Jeff Buckley song ever? Especially Last Goodbye?

JakeWilder said:

That is absolutely the most craziest thing I haveever heard!

JIff
http://www.internet-anonymity.net.tc

Anton said:

Thanks for the great music. Now I’m depressed! ;)

Alan said:

Sadness and Sorrow from the Naruto soundtrack. An instrumental, but the song makes me bawl if I’m low.

Adri said:

“Eleanor Rigby” by The Beatles always makes me tear up.

Will said:

Gary Jules cover of Tears for Fears’s “Mad World” heard in Donnie Darko and the Gears of War commerical is better than the original. It will rip your heart out!

Angydad said:

Sweet god and sonny jesus I hate to admit it, but “You fill up my Senses” by John Denver is like some kind of faucet for me. I cannot listen to that with any other person around out of fear of utter and total humiliation. Like a punch in the nose, really.

Also, “Fast Car” by Tracy Chapman. Really sad.

Anton said:

I literally thought I was going to die, late one night, when on my iPod, I listened for the first time to “Tecumseh Valley” by Townes Van Zandt. I swear – that song should come with a warning label: DO NOT PLAY IF EXPERIENCING INSOMNIA OR IN ANY WAY COURTING EXISTENTIAL DESPAIR.

Chris said:

If you haven’t watched Heima by Sigur Ros already then i really recommend it. It shouldn’t bring you to tears but its so beautiful so it does.

Joshua said:

God Damn the Sun by the Swans.

Calling All Angels by Jane Siberry.

D.O.A. by Bloodrock if you want to feel suicidal.

muze said:

Brilliant stuff. I have 2-3 more that get to me every time. Mostly from music soundtracks though. The Into the Wild Soundtrack – Eddie Vedder is amazing.

Chris H said:

I would like to add “Apparitions” by The Matthew Good Band. The video’s emotional story is tear worthy as well.

Sven said:

What about the Partridge Family? They had some pretty powerful stuff eh? I cry everytime I here one o there toonz.

Tyler said:

You forgot Martha by Tom Waits … that song kills me anytime I hear it …

someone said:

One that gets me is James Taylor “Fire & Rain”

~M said:

Billy Joel: And so it goes.

Smack of Ham said:

Totally agree with Cash’s version of Hurt and Ben Fold’s The Luckiest. No matter how many times I hear them….I cry every time. One other song that comes to mind for me, anyway, is “Winter” by Tori Amos.

someone said:

Also Eric Clapton “Tears in Heaven”

Mark said:

Right on, Spizawn. NIN’s original version of “Hurt” hurts bad enough, but Johnny Cash’s cover absolutely destroys me, every time. If it comes on while I’m driving, I have to pull over.

When I was in junior high, the Moody Blues “Nights in White Satin” could get me choked up enough that I’d have to start punching myself on the arm to man back up. Ditto ELP’s “Lucky Man.” Emotions, feh. Who needs ‘em?

tilly said:

youve left out the master ( and many others :) )…

the river, downbound train, bobby jean, stolen car, tougher than the rest – bruce springsteen

BaronVonHog said:

No Red House Painters?
No Low?

Come on now…

tyler said:

Do you Realize? By the Flaming Lips brings me to near tears every single time I hear it

Anton said:

Three links to Tecumseh Valley.

1) Townes Van Zandt: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8I0Oh7zccuQ

2) Nanci Griffith: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_sawzoQXe0&feature=related

3) Steve Earle: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Si6tLuSwYag&feature=related

All beautiful. Enjoy!

Patrick said:

“Wondrous Stories” by Yes
“Script For a Jester’s Tear” by Marillion

kj.moran said:

“Carrying Cathy” and “The Luckiest” by Ben Folds and “Vincent”

Angst said:

Natalie Merchant “My Beloved Wife”

Victor... said:

Try Fljotavik from Sigur Ros also…

Eric said:

“Seventeen” – Janis Ian
“The Killing Georgie” – Rod Stewart

kj.moran said:

oh, yeah…”Please Call Me Baby” by Tom Waits

Eric said:

Links:

Seventeen – Janis Ian
http://listen.grooveshark.com/song/At_Seventeen/8190887

Killing of Georgie – Rod Stewart
http://listen.grooveshark.com/song/The_Killing_Of_Georgie_Part_I_And_Ii_/11613920

I definitely second Fast Car from Tracy Chapman.

Ken said:

I always liked Yellow Ledbetter by Pearl Jam but after reading about it in Wikipedia it made me tear up when I read it agian. Weird, considering my brother made it back.

Josh said:

Damien Rice – The Blowers Daughter
Listen to this while driving in pitch black night. Especially if you haven’t heard it. Or maybe i’m a big pussy.

I pretty much agree with anything Sigur Ros makes you want to cry. Starlafur, Hoppipolla.

Hoppipolla is what Obama becoming President sounds like. Serious.

kj.moran said:

sorry for the multiples, but iris dement’s “my town” (the closing song to the last episode of “northern exposure”, whose music director was genius)

and…and if you wanna turn OFF the bucket:
john prine & iris dement: “in spite of ourselves”

Joe said:

I’m surprised Johnny Cash’s cover of “Hurt” wasn’t listed.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmVAWKfJ4Go

A worthy addition to this list is “Kilkelly”, written by Peter Jones from an actual set of letters from a father to his immigrant son.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsOA-5H_L2g

(If you like that one, try June Tabor’s & Maddy Prior’s “Somewhere Along the Road” or Tim Hart’s & Maddy Prior’s “Dancing at Whitsun” – both not so much sad as hauntingly wistful.)

Rick C. said:

RE: Michelle Shocked, “Anchorage,” I think I recall that Foreign Telegram was the name of a band she was in in years before. I can’t find any cites with a quickish google though — anyone back me up on this or tell me I’m going senile?

dru said:

A Warm Room – Envy
Twenty Below – Hidden in plain view
MFEO Part 2 You can Breathe – Jack’s Mannequin
Play Crack the Sky – Brand New
Nothing Better – The Postal Service (reminds me of a past relationship)
Freakish – Saves the Day
Untitled 1 – Sigur Ros

rich said:

speaking of ben folds: 2 of his songs that make me weep like an infant are “evaporated” and “boxing”. “boxing” is spoken from the point of view of muhammed ali confessing to howard cosell that he is becoming too old to fight anymore. that may sound a bit unorthodox, but it is the saddest thing you will ever hear. check it out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DlT4aFDZ-AM

jax said:

i can’t believe nobody mentioned elliott smith. anything off of ‘elliott smith’ is more or less a guarantee that i will go curl up in a corner and sob for at least an hour.

Kevin said:

I’ve never heard of ANY of those songs.

sean said:

what about tears in heaven by eric clapton? the background behind that song is enough to bring any human being with feelings to their knees…

kj.moran said:

sorry bout that…
iris dement’s is OUR town
…and here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FikZwgj89HI&feature=related

André said:

A French exchange student shared this beautiful love serenade by Pascal Obispo with me. I just need to hear the first keystrokes are enough to make me shiver. Later I found out what he was singing and it was heart-breaking.

Mel said:

The siren song – This mortal coil.

André said:

Sorry, its called “Lucie” by Pascal Obispo ;)

Richard said:

“Heartattack in a Lay By” by Porcupine Tree is amazing (the whole album “In Absentia” is killer). It is such a simple song and yet so beautiful and emotionally heavy – very sobering.

John said:

seasons in the sun

Kevin said:

Everyone has their own tastes and certain songs may be associated with events that cause a reaction. Personally I had high hopes but none of this music makes me sad nor do I really like it. All of it seems folky, hippie music. I’m just a heathen like that I suppose. =(

Some of the comments suggested good songs though!

Ari said:

Try Jimmy Eat World’s Work, Mogwai’s Stop Coming To My House, Nine Inch Nails’s Ripe [With Decay], System of a Down’s ATWA and Aerials, Jose Gonzalez’s Heartbeats and Teardrop, and Nirvana’s Pennyroyal Tea.

Melanie L said:

Jeff Buckley – Hallelujah (Leonard Cohen) & Last Goodbye

ed said:

I really liked this list, very good and informative. I especially like the inclusion of Nick Drake, I used to listen to it on the way to high school and it was so haunty on those cold winter mornings.

Two songs that should be on there are Twilight and Between the Bars(especially this one) by Elliott Smith. Once again a tragic figure, addict amongst other things. The difference is his hollow, haunting voice, his amazing songwriting which is almost mockingly beatle-esque and the harrowing subject matter

Straus said:

Neutral Milk Hotel. I promise, try it. Its a bit abstract, and the illusions to many topics abound, from the diary of Anne Frank I’ve been told, to first experiences with drugs, to youth and of course love. Which album? Aeroplane Over The Sea, song, almost any, but “The King of Carrot Flowers” hits it pretty well if you had shitty parents, “Two Headed Boy Part 1″ is great for love, and Part 2 for that song about relationships that fail and fatherhood and such.

“Oh how strange it is to be anything, at all.”

Adam said:

Songs that affect me that way often have little or nothing to do with the situation, but more to the irony of hearing the song during the time of the situation:

“Vincent” (Starry Starry Night”) by Don McLean – (I heard a Seattle talk radio host play this around the time a good friend of mine took his life; I love the song, but it’s now hard to listen to.)

“Photograph” – Nickelback – This song was *constantly* on tight rotation on radio stations even before Hurricane Katrina happened, but for some reason this song sticks in my mind when news stations began to show the human & property devastation in New Orleans.

patrick said:

“lover, you should’ve come over” by Jeff Buckley is the saddest song ever written, anyone that’s been left by another can relate to this song’s lyrics-

it’s R&B, but “charlene” by Anthony Hamilton is pretty hard hitting too..
about his girlfriend leaving him for chasing his dream with music-

Mike said:

“The Highwayman” sung by Lorenna McKennit.

I can’t listen to it because I cry every time.

cv said:

all i can say is: Forever by Ben Harper.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwJyFyBQVEM

Rich MacD said:

Glad to add something to an excellent list:
Elvis Costello and Burt Bacharach: “This House is Empty Now”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHX76Xpg9BI

Dave Clark said:

Harry Chapin’s “Cats in the Cradle” does it for me.

magneticstain said:

for me its boots and also like johnny cash’s version of hurt and mad world, gary jules version

Matt Duczeminski said:

Hallelujah by Jeff Buckley–EVERYTIME I hear it!
Canon in D =)

“Hoppipolla is what Obama becoming President sounds like. Serious.”
@Josh: I cannot agree with you more. That is one of my favorite songs of all time. It has so much raw emotion.

blahhhh said:

WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Kellie said:

Satellite – BT / http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tQ5r1LfKnY

anything by BT can bring a tear to the eye .. he’s a genius. :)

tim said:

Funny how time slips away, by Willie Nelson

herojuana said:

What a crock of shit. Fucking crybaby. Those songs are all bullshit.

Jason said:

“Svefn-g-englar” by Sigur Ros

English Translation

I’m here once more (anew)
Inside of you
It’s so nice (in here)
But I can’t stay for long

I float around in liquid hybernation
(in a hotel)
drinking all the electricity
(on board)

tjú, tjú, tjú
tjú, tjú, tjú

But the wait makes me (uneasy)
I kick (the fragility) away from me (and I shout)
I have to go (help)

tjú, tjú, tjú
tjú, tjú, tjú
tjú, tjú, tjú

tjú, tjú, tjú, tjú

I explode out and the peace is gone

(Bathed in new light
I cry and I cry, disconnected)
An unused brain is put on breasts and is fed by sleep
Sleepwalkers

tjú, tjú, tjú
tjú, tjú, tjú
tjú

Monte said:

“Tomorrow, Wendy” by Concrete Blonde gets me every time….especially if you have seen the video and know the meaning behind the song.

Brent said:

No Micheal Bublé?

Jon said:

RU OLD AND DORKY? GAY?

Jon said:

NL1138 is dead on about “What Sarah Said”. Absolutely amazing song with some of the most haunting lyrics.
I would also add to the list “Trapeze Swinger” by Iron and Wine

Greg said:

I could go on with a gigantic list here of songs that make me cry because of sadness and songs that make me cry because of happy lyrics and melodies. I have to say though, the band neva dinova is some of the saddest music that constantly makes me want to tear. It’s sad but very good, you could should check them out

Matt Alexander said:

“Boots of Spanish Leather” by Bob Dylan
“Road” by Nick Drake
“The Last Time I Saw Richard” by Joni Mitchell

Coincidentally, these tracks were all on a mix I made last week called “No second thought guily pleasure no time to fix typos mix” (yes, I never stopped making mix tapes). Anyway, the following track always get me really choked up also:

“Mother” by John Lennon
“Cripple and the Starfish” by Antony and the Johnsons
“Breathe Me” by Sia
“Jackson Square” by Mason Jennings
“The Great Gig In The Sky” by Pink Floyd
“Where Did You Sleep Last Night” sung by Nirvana

Matt Alexander said:

@Jon: Welcome Digg users!

Ghostie said:

New Dawn Fades- Joy Division. Or, Love Will Tear us Apart
Brothers on a Hotel Bed- Death Cab for Cutie
Fake Plastic Trees- Radiohead
The Center of the World- Bright Eyes
This Time Imperfect- AFI
Pierrot the Clown- Placebo
… But thats just me.

Trent said:

I cannot believe nobody has mentioned the saddest song ever created…”One Tin Soldier” by Coven

The internets said:

Put it all on one page, please.

Gústaf said:

icelandic music is great. i know that very well, mainly because im icelandic myself:D come to my land, it has many beautiful things to look at…like…the Sigur Rós studio. or whatever…
Sigur rós is pretty great. I’ve been less than 2 meters from the band. does that make me famous? naah..

clayton said:

vince gill – go rest high on that mountain

Tom said:

Either of the two new unnamed songs by Joanna Newsom make me cry, they’re so beautiful.

Tony said:

Jeff Buckley`s “Forget her” does it for me every time

John said:

Good calls on “One Tin Soldier” and “Freakish” (Saves the Day)

Jim said:

Irene Wilde – Ian Hunter

Many people keep suggesting Johnny Cash’s version of “Hurt”, but much more heartbeaking is his rendition of the Beatle’s “In My Life”, which is already a sad song in and of itself.
As far as Jeff Buckley goes – how about “Jewel Box”? That’s a sad song…

Susan said:

If you think Springsteen’s “Sandy” make’s you cry, try watching the itunes Magic Tour Highlights download of Danny Federici’s last performance of that song on Stage with Bruce and the band in Indianapolis on March 20, 2008 shortly before Danny died. Just bring a box of tissues!

Bruno said:

Also missed Red House Painters, but then again, they have a lot of tearjerkers, so it’d be kinda hard to pick just one.

Dan said:

“One Last Goodbye” by Anathema is a song that makes me cry

jbev said:

“He Stopped Loving Her Today” by George Jones. Prepare to bury the rag deep in your face, to quote Dylan, after you hear that one.

Lyrics said:

Wow, fantastic list. Hardly ever agree with these kinds of things but I have to say that most of these songs have – at some point – made me weep. So refreshing to see Bert Jansch! Jansch is one of the most incredible guitarists to walk this earth.

“Luka” by Suzanne Vega turns on the waterworks for me — every damned time.

Martin said:

You can’t have a list of depressing songs without a substantial country-music element. Myself? Not a big country fan…but these draw a tear pretty consistently:

“Whiskey Lullaby” by Brad Paisley and Allison Krauss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hu5etWJLJGs
The intertwined stories of a soldier and his true love. He returns to find she has cheated on him, and drinks himself to death. Overcome with guilt, she does the same.

-

“Skin” by Rascal Flatts
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Lq6dpoLwbY
The story of a young girl diagnosed with cancer. If you don’t cry when her prom date comes to pick her up, you are subhuman. I’ve heard this song well over 20 times, and I still bawl.

-

“I’ll Wait for You” by Joe Nichols
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VaR77TJ25-Q
The sweetest story ever told. From the point of view of a husband, singing about how, throughout their marriage, his wife always assured him that she would “wait for him” every time he couldn’t be with her because of his job, the weather, etc. Then she gets sick. I also cry at this one every time. Listening to it now with tears welling up.

Only had a few songs pull on my heart strings only to start the water works – seem to be all country songs though, the whole my wife left me, my dog died can be heart wrenching.

Pandora said:

I dare anyone to listen to Midfield General “Teddy Bear” and tell me they felt nothing.

These are some of my current tear-jerking lyrics…..i dunno, hits a chord in the current state of things now.

So far away
I wish you were here
Before it’s too late, this could all disappear
Before the doors close
And it comes to an end
With you by my side I will fight and defend,
I’ll fight and defend

this is a link to Sigur Ros:
http://www.soundsbox.com/artist.php?a=xx&5645=200

Ringtones said:

I always cry when I listen to Everclear – Wonderful. It’s one of the few songs that continually make me weep.

Nac Dasty said:

“Old Records Never Die” by Ian Hunter

Anne said:

tom traubert’s blues – tom waits.

the first time i heard it i cried like a baby. maybe it has something to do with the fact it has elements of “waltzing matilda” in it— and i am an aussie after all…

TooOldToKnow said:

“Honey” – Bobby Goldsboro.

“See the tree, how big it’s grown…” Oh my god. :( Rated as worst song ever by CNN but lose your spouse prematurely and see if you can stand even one LINE of this song without losing it.

Not sad enough for you? How about:

“All By Myself” – Eric Carmen
“Same Old Lang Syne” – Dan Fogelberg
“The Living Years” – Mike & The Mechanics

And if not those, than at least you can dance to this one while wiping your tears away:

“The Winner Takes It All” – ABBA

And if not that, then, while leaping off a tall building, why not listen to this song on your iPod on the way down? This is my pick for most depressing song ever.

“Alone Again (Naturally)” – Gilbert O’Sullivan

A song first about being left at the altar and wanting to commit suicide, then reflecting on the death of his parents, all of which leaves him, ‘Alone again, naturally.’ Six weeks at #1 either proves a lot of Americans identified with this song, or we all need more Prozac.

“I promised myself, to treat myself,
And visit a nearby tower.
And climbing to the top,
will throw myself off…”

Where’s my meds?! :O

nicky said:

“3 libras” by a perfect circle: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OoMHArmGWY
“on a tuesday in amsterdam long ago” by counting crows: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L1rt0L-rtMM (sorry about the crazy screaming guy)
“melt my heart to stone (live)” by adele: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eT4jCoWI4A
“dilute” by the honorary title: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_BQO7sP4gw

to name a few…

Tas said:

In The Morning Before Work by Owen, It Hurts by Angels and Airwaves, El Manana by The Gorillaz, and Hurt – but The Johnny Cash Version.
It’s kinda funny how all of them are linked to ex-boyfriends and such… except Johnny Cash’s song. That one is just sad.

The Archivist said:

‘Cut Here’ or ‘There Is No If …’ by The Cure, ‘Follow You, Follow Me’ by Genesis, and ‘Selected Ambient Works Volume 2, CD 1, Track 3′ by Aphex Twin.

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cdarbs said:

“I’m Still Here” by Tom Waits- it’s about a minute-thirty of cuts to the core (“You haven’t looked at me that way in years/But I’m still here”).

I don’t know what she’s singing about, but anything by Edith Piaf is so hauntingly depressing and can move me to tears. (“Tu Es Partout” featured in the film Saving Private Ryan, anyone?)

The Eagles are always good for moving me to tears- “Sad Cafe”, “Desperado” and “I Can’t Tell You Why” spring to mind.

Lot’s of suggestions here for me to hunt down, thanks.

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Max said:

I second “Hallelujah”, but I’d go with the John Cale version that was on the Basquiat soundtrack.

I would also add:
Porcupine Tree – Pure Narcotic
The Delgados – Sink or Swim
The Smiths – There is a Light That Never Goes Out
Rilo Kiley – A Better Son/Daughter
Neko Case – Soulful Shade of Blue
Led Zeppelin – Braun-Yr-Aur

John said:

good list. I would personally add Sarah mclauchan’s- in the arms of an angel

bil said:

i guess you haven’t cried for awhile those songs are ancient

Fera said:

I see Siguros but why would you neglect to mention “How to disappear completely” by Radiohead

Dee said:

“Angel,” Sinead O’Connor. There is one line — “I only want a golden chain to hang my love upon” — that makes me bawl no matter how many times I’ve heard it.

johnnie said:

Hard to find but ‘Julie’ by brit folk band the Levelers always brings a lump to my throat.

Paul said:

“John Wayne Gacy” by Sufjan Stevens
“The Dutchman” by Michael Smith (sung by Steve Goodman)
“Boulder to Birmingham” by Emmylou Harris

Barb said:

What If – Josh Radin

Tom said:

the grateful dead- brokedown palace

blur- tender

nat king cole- stardust

csn- wasted on the way

the beach boys- wouldn’t it be nice and don’t worry baby

tom waits- johnsburg illinois

pink floyd- mother

the eagles- the sad cafe

‘we thought we could change this world with words like love and freedom’

if i ruminate enough about joe strummer’s death while listening, almost any song by the clash can just about bring me to tears.

jon nolan said:

i shared a room with my older brother he’s 10 years older than me.in 1964 iwas 6 he was 16 . listened to dylan all the time .still listen to him almost every day. anyway, the first time i cried to a song was to THE lonesome death of hattie carrol. when zanzinger was sentenced to 6 months for murder it made me cry. pretty heavy for a 6 or 7 year old huh?

kurt said:

Townes Van Zandt’s The Tower Song…and also To Live’s To Fly

Ice X said:

You have two of my “saddest” artists, but I have other songs for each of them that bring me to tears. From the ultimate “break-up” album Blood on the Tracks, Dylan’s “Simple Twist of Fate” strikes me as one of the saddest songs ever written (and of course, his performance nails it). But the song that really makes me cry everytime is “You’re Missing” about one family’s personal aftermath from September 11, 2001. Those violins and Bruce’s piano combined crack my heart apart. Oh, and I tear up everytime I heard John Lennon’s “Watching the Wheels”, because that was the first song I heard after I got the tragic news.

michael said:

Elton: Talking Old Soldiers

dev said:

It Makes No Difference by The Band “And the dawn don’t rescue me no more …”

tracer said:

Boots of Spanish Leather for sure
but also:
1926 as recorded by Thalia Zedek
Goddamn the Sun by Swans
Seven Curses and Moonshiner by Dylan

tracer said:

Black Hair and People Aint No Good by Nick Cave
The entire Berlin record by Lou Reed

tracer said:

Who Are You This Time by Tom Waits

rockshark said:

“I Don’t Know Where I Stand” Fairport Covention (BBC Album)- for those in turbulant relationships.

Claudio said:

several people have mentioned it already but “Hallelujah” by Leonard Cohen … seems to be one of those songs that just exist and are not written; that song is just channeled through Leonard Cohen. no offense to anyone but it’s as close to a religious experience as i’ll get!! also “Not Dark Yet” by Dylan and others by him, just some lyrics from the song that spring to mind;

Well my sense of humanity
Has gone down the drain
Behind every beautiful thing
There’s been some kind of pain
She wrote me a letter
And she wrote it so kind
She put down in writin’
What was in her mind
I just don’t see why I should even care
It’s Not Dark Yet
But it’s gettin’ there

nept said:

Hi there,
about “Boots Of Spanish Leather” I need to say: If You wanna cry a little more, get the 1996 Live-version from the time-out of mind singles. Although I’m a big fan, I never got the original vinyl and soI heard this the first time in a live-show from bob. Overwhelming!

mountain man said:

Hey thats no way to say goodbye by Leonard Cohen and Night comes on also by LC.

Stephanie said:

the songs that make a person cry themselves to sleep, or make them just want to wither away is BYE BYE AND THE CALL. One is of a lost soemone and one is to try to convinc yourself that someone is going to come back but their not- you dont want to say goodbye because that will just make you feel worse even though when you dont say goodbye after a while you feel even more like your heart has been stepped on by fate and remorse. I guess you have to have a special person in your heart to feel any emotion to either of these songs, it would be my moyher for me, the truest person I know. I recomend these songs.

Sean said:

Neil Young’s “Like A Hurricane”…he has far more depressing music but I think this is the pinnacle of his guitarwork and some of it is just overwhelming. For Nick Drake I would have used Northern Sky or Time Has Told Me. Also, any Elliott Smith song

Lesley said:

Songbird – Fleetwood Mac

Solid Vodka said:

I highly recommend “Too Many Memories” by stellar Austin-based songwriter and longtime Kris Kristofferson and Bonnie Raitt guitarist Steven Bruton. Raitt, in fact, offers back-up vocals on the version on Bruton’s five-star “What it Is” album. Too Many Memories” has also been covered by Patty Loveless and Hal Ketchum, two of country music’s most distinct stylists. If this song doesn’t make you well up on occasion, you’ve got a heart of stone.

Solid Vodka said:

My bad… It’s Stephen Bruton (not Steven), of course. He’s a world-class songwriter/guitarist!

Sam said:

Oddly enough, I was just talking to my roommate last night about a song that always makes me tear it. It’s “Cassie” by Flyleaf. I’m not a huge fan of the band, but it’s about Cassie Bernall, the girl from Columbine who was asked, “Do you believe in God?” right before they shot her. Even if you don’t have to share her belief, the real life tragedy combined with the Flyleaf singer’s very emotional voice gets me every time. In fact, I even teared up a bit telling my roommate about it. I’m such a girl sometimes.

Several of my favorite sad songs are already listed in the comments. “Cathedrals,” “Apparitions,” and “Fake Plastic Trees” are especially killer. I’m surprised only one other person mentioned Counting Crows though. They were my “emo” in high school and early college. The song that always got to me most was, “I’m Not Sleeping.” Good stuff.

Meryl said:

some of mine are pretty old **sigh** but so am I…

“Shannon” Henry Gross

“Daniel” Elton John

“Little Willow” Paul McCartney

“In the Arms of the Angels” Sarah McLaughlin

“Saltwater” Julian Lennon

“My Dad” performed by Paul Peterson

“The Three Ravens” performed by John Harle with Sarah Leonard

“Somewhere Over the Rainbow/What a Wonderful World” performed by Israel Kamakawiwi’ole

“Atlantis” Donovan

“Toyland (Please take Me Back)” Nat King Cole

franCOOLco said:

love you more than live – neutral milk hotel
saddest song i’ve ever heard. his singing sounds so weak and pathetic which just adds to the saddyness of it.

oh comely – neutral milk hotel

Hayley said:

JUST A DREAM BY CARRIE UNDERWOOD!
saddest song ever and it makes me cry every time i listen to it.
her husband dies in war and the song is about how she is reacting and the funeral.
“baby why’d you leave me, whyd you have to go, i was counting on forever now i’ll never know,”
and the part that always gets me is
” The preacher man said “Let us bow our heads and pray”
“Lord please lift his soul and heal this hurt”
Then the congregation all stood up and sang
The saddest song that she ever heard
Then they handed her a folded up flag
And she held on to all she had left of him
oh and what could’ve been
Then the guns rang one last shot
And it felt like a bullet in her heart “

Susan said:

Trust me: – “Now we are free” by Enya or Lisa Gerard. If that does not make you cry – then nothing will. It was the last song in the soundtrack on Gladiator. I used it at my dad’s funeral during the committal. It was quite perfect and damningly sad.

Frederic said:

Not in english but truly really sad melodies

Sigur Ros – Von
Sigur Ros – Agaetis Byrjun
Patrick Cassidy – Vide cor Meum

Paulino said:

C’mon what about Joni Mitchell’s “Both sides now”, the version on the “Love Actually” Soundtrack is better and sadder

David Griffiths said:

Downriver by David Ackles

Mark - Westport, CT said:

Good call on “Anchorage” despite Sarah Palin.

Bawls said:

Drake didn’t commit suicide…

Jay said:

Holy CRAP!!! “Starry Satrry Night” by Don McLean…I could barely get the video loaded on YouTube before I started leaking like a friggin faucet!!!
Thanks for the memories, Adam.

Jay said:

Did anyone add “This Year’s Love” by David Gray?

Joanna said:

I would add “Song to the Siren” by This Mortal Coil. Amazing cover.

Paul said:

Beautiful collection!
I’d add a couple of songs, though:
Damien Rice – Accidental Babies
The National – About Today
Phil Collins – I’ve Forgotten Everything (I’m a little bit ashamed of this one, but it definitely works for me. This album was heavily influenced by the divorce from his second wife, and I really think one can hear the pain)

Eric said:

One of my girlfriend’s favorite songs was “Warning Sign” by Coldplay. It was so nice to have her curl up next to me on the couch at night while listening to the song. She died a few years ago, and the ending always tears my heart out.

Another one that gets me every time is “Tonight the Sky” by Sun Kil Moon. It reminds me of her, though I don’t think she ever heard it.

Yeah yeah said:

The Final Countdown. Europe.

Bruce said:

I really can’t say any of these songs tear me up… not like Tom Rush’s version of These Days… “Don’t remind me of my failures, I’ve not forgotten them”.

jennifer said:

ok so ive got some songs that will always make me cry no matter what:
with or with out you by U2
where the streets have no names by U2
let it be by the beatles
yesterday by the beatles
black bird by the beatles lyrics make me cry
guitar gentley weeps by the beatles lyrics make me cry
more than a feeling by boston my best friends favourite song before she died i cant even listen to it anymore without crying.
white winged dove by fleetwood mac
laughing by the guess who
nothing else matters by mettallica lyrics and melody make me cry
someday by nickleback if you’ve ever been abused listen to the lyrics i swear itll make you cry
momma im coming home ozzy osbourne lyrics make me ball
wish you were here by pink floyd
learning to fly by tom petty
cats in the cradle by ugly kid joe
jamie’s crying by van halen reminds me of ex boyfriends
love reign ov’r me by the who
karma police by radiohead
scar tissue by red hot chili peppers lyrics make me cry
18 and life by skid row when you listen to the lyrics its painfully sad
lol thats my top twenty songs.

elleb said:

Let It Be – The Beatles
100 Years – Five For Fighting
Desperado – Eagles
Samson – Regina Spektor
The Way You Look Tonight – Fred Astaire
18th Floor Balcony – Blue October

Bryan said:

I’ll admit i’m more of a movie song person. The songs and the movie together can break me down just thinking about them. Some off the top of my head are:
Forever Love- X Japan sang at the end of the movie X.
The song at the end of Gladiator.
Orca Finale- Ennio Morricone Sang in the movie Orca.

Brian said:

Genesis – Please Don’t Ask
Nina Simone – If You Knew

Dontae Monday said:

If your reading this
Whisky lullby
one sweet day
just a dream
wholes in the floor of heaven
concrete angel
those are real tear jerkers and im a guy

Ash said:

Jackson Browne – Song for Adam.
Breaks me and my friends down.

wintertj said:

God – John Lennon
In My Life – Beatles
A Lifetime – Better Than Ezra
Nightswimming – R.E.M.
Two Teardrops – Steve Wariner
Lightning Crashes – Live

Miss_rema said:

“my Bff = Manu” :)
1-true friend – hannah montana ( It reminds me of my BFF always )
2-when you’re gone – Avril ( reminds me of me BFF too :( )
3-Heart brusts into fire ( reminds me of my BFF cuz he is so far )
4-Kelly clarkson – there is song I can’t remember ( but it always makes me cry )
6-F.I.R - Bei Ji Quan ( reminds me of how is my best friend so far away from me )
7-keep holding on – avril ” my best friend too :) ManU ”
8-forget about me ” my bf ….”
9- Not gonna get us – tatu girls ( reminds me of Marina my best sister )
10-curtains fall – Blue ( reminds me of some guys were my friend but they all died in a trip by accident T_T )

….
every song about friendships ” makes me always cry cuz i remember my friend who i wish i can be with right now T_T ”
…that is crazy
but friendship really means alot for me more important than love …yeah! for Me*

Caro said:

An ending (ascent) by Brian Eno makes me cry every time I hear it.
They play it at the end of the movie Traffic.

ErikSechlyu said:

All good! Off the top of my head, I can think of these (some pretty sappy):

Jackson Browne-Sky Blue Sky (#1 all time sad emotional song)
The Alan Parsons Project-Time
The Perishers-Almost Pretty
Joe Bongiorno-Touched (piano)
Wim Mertens-Casting no Shadow (very emotional)
David Gray-Shine
October Project-Return to me
Nick Drake-Fly
The Acorn-Glory
Uncle Tupelo-Shaky Ground
Red House Painters-Song for a blue guitar
Sun Kil Moon-Morristown
Eddie Vedder-Society
Neil Young- After the Gold Rush
Matthew Ryan-Still Part II
Death Cab for Cutie-Lack of Color
Bon Iver- Re:Stacks
The Frames-Friends and Foe
Kathleen Edwards-Alicia Ross

Batesymillwall said:

The Needle & the Damage Done – Neil Young
Gravity – Sara Barreiles
Almost Here – The Unbelievable Truth(Thom Yorkes brothers band)
http://www.last.fm/music/Unbelievable+Truth/_/Almost+Here?autostart

Batesymillwall said:

Oh yeah, and Maxwells unplugged version of Kate Bushs “This Womans Work”. Class.

Glen Beliakoff said:

“Apron Strings” by Everything But The Girl always gets me because it reminds me of a woman that has tried and tried to conceive . Also “Angie ” by The Stones , just that emptiness and lost hope and no money in our coats .

Marcus said:

Neil Young – “Borrowed Tune”
Maxwell – “This Woman’s Work”
Chiodos – “Lindsay Quit Lollygagging”
Clint Black – “Desperado” (better than the Eagles)
Dustin Kensrue – “Blanket of Ghosts”

Chloe said:

Sorry by Maria Mena. I just listened to it and now I’m depressed T_T Also, the lullaby from Pan’s Labyrinth. If you haven’t seen that movie, watch it! So sad, but great :)

Josh said:

The Band Of Brothers Theme tune should be in that list, it honestly makes me want to cry but i can’t. That tune makes you think of the horrors in world war 2 and Thank the WW2 Veterans (forgive me if i spelt that wrong)
that helped bring about a better world.



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