He Said/She Said: 20 Boy-Girl Duets for the AgesBy
Douglas Newman
There’s something special about duets with male and female voices. The contrast of sounds is pleasing to my ears. I especially like the ones where the vocalists are having a conversation through song - a musical he said/she said. Below are 20 of my favorite boy/girl duets, listed in chronological order. Well, at least they’re my favorites as of today. What are some of your favorites?
“Tramp” by Otis Redding & Carla Thomas (1967)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. A soulful romp between Carla Thomas and Otis Redding finds her lamenting how he’s too poor and just not sophisticated enough to be her man. “Look here/You ain’t got no money/I got everything/You can’t buy me all those minks and sables and all that stuff I want.”
“Coração Vagabundo” by Gal Costa & Caetano Veloso (1967)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. You can’t get much smoother than this bossa nova gem with Tropacalia masters Caetano Veloso and Gal Costa. No matter where you listen to this track, it’s sunny and sultry.
“Some Velvet Morning” by Lee Hazlewood & Nancy Sinatra (1968)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. Universally hailed as one the best duets, “Some Velvet Morning” is a sultry psychedlic masterpiece delivered stunningly delivered by Lee Hazlewood and Nancy Sinatra. The lyrics consist of the male part describing a mysterious, powerful woman named Phaedra, who educated the speaker in the ways of love. The male part alternates with the female part, who identifies herself as Phaedra and speaks over ethereal, twinkling music about beautiful nature imagery — “flowers growing on a hill / dragonflies and daffodils” — and about the secrets held by an unknown collective “we.”
“Jackson” by Johnny Cash & June Carter (1968)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. The quintessential collaboration between Johnny Cash and June Carter, “Jackson” tells the tale of a married couple who find that the “fire” has gone out of their relationship. The song relates the desire of both partners to travel to a city named Jackson (possibly Jackson, Mississippi or Jackson, Tennessee) where they each expect to be welcomed as someone far better suited to the city’s lively night life than the other is.
“Je t’aime… moi non plus” by Serge Gainsbourg & Jane Birkin (1969)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. Erotic to the core, this duet was originally sung by Gainsbourg and his ex, Brigitte Bardot, but she pleaded with him not to release it fearing repercussions by her then husband, Gunther Sachs. A year later, Gainsbourg re-recorded the song with his new lover, English actress Jane Birkin. The song was controversial for its suggestive lyrics (”I come and I go, in between your loins”) and simulated orgasm sounds. It was banned from radio play in Italy, Poland, Portugal, Spain, and the UK, and denounced by the Vatican in a public statement.
“Don’t Believe Nothing” by Ike Turner & His Kings of Rhythm with Tina Turner (1973)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. This is a somewhat rare Ike and Tina track from the early seventies when Ike was starting to experiment with more funky arrangements and advanced recording techniques. He was a fairly early adopter of the ARP and drum machine, taking a cue from Herbie Hancock and other cosmic funksters. I first heard this song quite recently on the wonderful compilation, More Dirty Laundry: The Soul Of Black Country. Pure genius!
“In My Hour of Darkness” by Gram Parsons with Emmylou Harris (1974)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. I never tire of this track, one in a long line of brilliant collaborations between Gram Parsons and Emmylou Harris. Their voices seem to have been made for each other. Listen to this song and you’ll know what I mean.
“I Never Talk to Strangers” by Tom Waits & Bette Midler (1977)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. Taken from Tom Waits’ boozy, bluesy album Foreign Affairs, “I Never Talk to Strangers” is a humorous romp with the pre-cheesy torch singer, Bette Midler. It’s basically a dialogue between two lonely singles at a bar, delivered with the gruff resignation of Tom Waits and the zippy jazz vocals of Midler.
“Los Angeles” by X (Exene Cervenka & John Doe) (1980)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. X’s Los Angeles is one of the great recordings of the punk era, thanks in part to the perfect vocal team of John Doe & Exene Cervenka. Add to that the ace rockabilly guitar work of Billy Zoom and Doe’s poetic lyrics and you got one of the decade’s most exciting, and underrated, bands.
“Don’t Give Up” by Peter Gabriel with Kate Bush (1986)![]() Audio clip: Adobe Flash Player (version 9 or above) is required to play this audio clip. Download the latest version here. You also need to have JavaScript enabled in your browser. Taken from Gabriel’s hit album, So, “Don’t Give Up” describes the despair of a man who feels that the economic system has no place for him, and the support and wise counsel sung in the refrain by Bush. It’s a beautiful ballad with an ultimately uplifiting message that serves, over 20 years later, as a great anthem of our current economic times.
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Yang said:
nothing better - the postal service, with ben gibbard and emily haines is one of my favorite boy/girl duets. it’s such a great dialogue between them and the metaphors in the lyrics are amazing! Arfy said:
I think you NEED “Baby its Cold Outside” by Louis Armstrong with Ella Fitzgerald on this list!!! Yaesu said:
The list is lacking without: Ozzy Osbourne & Lita Ford - If I Close My Eyes Forever Blaine said:
Kudos for the Soldier’s Joy mention… that track can’t ever get enough love, in my opinion. However, I would rank “Love Hurts” off of Live 1973 as the single best Gram and Emmylou collaboration. T said:
Yang, that’s actually one Jen Wood on Nothing Better, not Emily Haines. But for the list, Death to Los Campesinos and Fairytale of New York are inspired choices. I give the list a thumbs up Gene said:
Islands in the stream?? Mecha Mummy said:
Good list except for the baffling omission of at least one song featuring Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell. Joe the Plumber said:
Los Campesinos are not really that good a band. For some good contemporary boy girl type bands look toward ‘mates of state’, ‘Architecture in Helsinki’, ’stars’… Eug said:
shiny toy guns - you are the one, the male/female duo is awesome. Sarah said:
You Don’t Know Me by Ben Folds and Regina Spektor is my current favorite boy/girl duet Oldtimer said:
Any list like this that overlooks the Tammi Terrell/Marvin Gaye duets is suspect in my book. Josh said:
Agreed that Nothing Better is a great one, but where’s Baby It’s Cold Outside? Probably my all time favorite. Tony said:
Do you know “How Do You Keep The Music Playing” performed by James Ingram and Patti Austin? Masterful R&B duet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UX-7bDvGkA4 Seri said:
I know you already have a Thom Yorke track in the list, but if you haven’t heard it then I thoroughly recommend “This Mess We’re In” from PJ Harveys “Stories from the city, stories from the sea” album, one of my favourite duets. jp said:
I vote for “Your Ex-Lover is Dead” by The Stars. Listening to that was one of the most moving musical experiences of my life. JazzFan said:
How could ou make this list without mentioning Ella Fitzgerald with Louis Armstrong? Wilby Daniels said:
“Something Stupid” isn’t on here? How is this not number 1, let alone not on the list at all? [...] list Kinda cool list: He Said/She Said: 20 Boy/Girl Duets for the Ages | JamsBio Magazine __________________ This American Life, The Take-Away Shows, Jazz Profiles, radiOM, Streaming [...] Santiago said:
umm… what about “Hit The Road Jack”, what about “9 Crimes” or “Cannonball” (Damien Rice)????????? Not to mention dozens of other duets that should have made this list. Mind you Its a good list… its just lacking some songs that strike me as obvious. The Oct8pus said:
Je t’aime…moi non plus is awesome. However, the lyrics are: “I come and I go, in between your kidneys”, which in a way is a little more graphic than “loins”….anyway….great tune. [...] He Said/She Said: 20 Boy/Girl Duets for the Ages | JamsBio Magazine (tags: Music list) [...] Vysnu » Magnolia Post said:
[...] November 6, 2008 He Said/She Said: 20 Boy/Girl Duets for the Ages | JamsBio MagazineHe Said/She Said: 20 Boy/Girl Duets for the Ages: I’m a sucker for male/female duets. [...] Google The Oct8pus said:
I wouldn’t go as far as saying that the Jack White/Loretta Lynn song is a classic… Cartoon Guy said:
I love johnny cash haha. ross said:
thats what SHE said Ringtones said:
Simon and Garfunkel should be up there. i know Simon technically isn’t a girl, but his gay passion for Garfunkel should be able to transcend the guy girl zone soundsgirl said:
a WOW list! here’s some classic duets and some more modern duets as well: http://www.soundsbox.com/search.php?q=KEYWORD&ar=true&al=true&s=true&aff=200 joshua said:
“Where Is the Love” Donny Hathaway and Roberta Flack. web said:
It’s so strange the way things go. Don’t give up…. Mike said:
You NEED to have an honorable mention for “Falling Slowly” by Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova from the movie, “Once.” They won an Academy Award for that song! Eric said:
white stripes or the pixies? marty said:
Candy - Iggy Pop & Kate Pierson mikejonze said:
here’s a couple that weren’t on this list, but would be on mine if i took the time to put one together: james iha & nina gordon - said sadly Johannes Eicca said:
Brian Mcfadden & Delta Goodrem - Almost Here awesome and touchy song =) bigby said:
Fairytale of New York was always one of my favorite songs growing up, as were Kate Bush & Peter Gabriel’s collaborations. For current works, Yankee Bayonet by The Decemberists and Laura Veirs would be on my top 20. Nothing Better is quite good as well I might add. L.D. Freitas said:
Like the pick of waits/Middler for ‘I Don’t Talk to Strangers’ but just as good is his duets with Crystal Gayle on the Tom Waits soundtrack album for the 1982 Coppola film “One From the Heart.” Three duets were sung: ‘Wages of Love,’ Freeze Out said:
Ian & Sylvia? Msh2ari said:
What about “Anyone Else But You” Moldy Peaches? One of my alltime faves … and has been before Juno, okaY? djalicat said:
jarvis cocker and miki from lush - ciao! a classic ‘f-you-my-life-is-great-since-we-broke-up’ song by two big stars of britpop! here’s a link…it’s the only one i could find chloe said:
it’s true that we love one another - the white stripes |
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